A bigger girl in a vintage world.
“Why are all vintage clothes so small?”
“I wish I could wear vintage clothes but nothing fits me.”
“They were so small back then.”
If you frequent the social spider web of Insta and Tik Tok, you may have been affected by, listening to, speaking out on, or even ignoring the big conversations happening right now about the decline of body positivity. While trends these days change as often as we change our undergarments, the desire to be thin seems to be a persistent push in the world of fashion. I am a firm believer beauty comes from confidence. And confidence comes from security in self. Well…it’s awful hard to be confident when you’re constantly being berated for your looks — and that goes for people of all shapes and sizes. A thin person can face awful critism; “eat a sandwich”, they might hear. And a bigger person may be surrounded with images and ads of smaller people with captions like “ready to look this good?”. It’s no wonder we all feel less than. Speaking from experience, walking in to a store to see a million clothing items you love but nothing in your size is a feeling akin to being yelled at in front of all your friends at a party; in simpler terms, humiliating.